Mark Gilroy

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Writing: You Gotta Love It; You Gotta Hate It

Writing is a love-hate relationship.

Writing: you gotta love it and you gotta hate it!

I love churning out 5,000 words in a day. But I hate deleting 5,000 words from a section that just wasn’t working. (Some things you’ve added to your story just don’t fit and can’t be saved.)

I love coming up with a surprise ending. But I hate having to wade through 400 pages to fix spoilers and drop in appropriate hints for the alert reader. (I know from experience that alert readers will let you know when you missed one thing.)

I love approving press proofs. But I hate proof reading and finding yet another typo or a missing question mark. (I personally believe that errors are real entities that get to work after you shut down your computer for the night.) [Read more…]

The Prayer of Saint Patrick

What better way to celebrate St. Patrick’s Day than to savor the wisdom and worship found in the Prayer of Saint Patrick.
Savor the wisdom and worship of Saint Patrick.

Saint Patrick, born in Britain in 385 AD, became the “Missionary to the Irish,” a people who once enslaved him.

I arise today
Through the strength of heaven;
Light of the sun,
Splendor of fire,
Speed of lightning,
Swiftness of the wind,
Depth of the sea,
Stability of the earth,
Firmness of the rock. [Read more…]

In Praise of Procrastination

Is your procrastination trying to tell you something?

Is your procrastination trying to teach you something?

In praise of procrastination? Really?

Mark, when was the last time someone told you “nicely done” after you procrastinated?

Good question. I can’t remember. Like you, the predominant message I’ve heard my entire life is “get it done now.” Procrastination is bad.  Authors, speakers, preachers, parents, teachers, bosses, clients, great quotations, and trusted advisors, have delivered the same message in unison: Don’t put off until tomorrow what you can do today. Heck, Larry the Cable Guy built a stand-up career around the phrase “Git-R-Done.” Hard to argue with Larry. And by the way,  I largely agree with the sentiment of getting things down now. But I would also suggest that there are times when procrastination conveys an important personal message that we should heed.

Consider this an ode to putting some things off until tomorrow (or forever): In Praise of Procrastination.

PROBLEMS

The wise adage tells to not let small problems turn into big problems. So attack your problem right now. Right? Yes, but not always.

Have you noticed that sometimes tackling a problem straightway and head-on actually makes the problem bigger—and sometimes ignoring a problem lets a problem solve itself and disappear? Some disagreements with a neighbor, friend, spouse or colleague will only be exacerbated by immediate attention. If you give the quarrel some space and time—in other words, if you procrastinate—you both might discover it really wasn’t that big of a deal in the first place. Striking while the fire is hot often increases emotional outbursts and harsh words that make the original disagreement pale in comparison.

Some disagreements can’t be ignored and avoided. But giving problems breathing room affords better perspective, which can lead to better solutions or at least lessen intense emotions that turn mole hills into mountains. Strike while the fire is hot—but not always. Sometimes it is better to stall and let problems sort themselves out.

Procrastination might be telling you not to make matters worse. As a wise sage once said: “If you’re in a hole, stop digging.” [Read more…]